February 2025
Happy February to all of you from all of us at Inspire Behavioral Health! We hope you and yours have a wonderful month filled with good health and happiness. We hope you will celebrate Black History Month, have a romantic Valentine’s Day and enjoy a 2025 holiday. We hope, as always, that this will the month you learn and grow more so that you will live a deeper, richer, more meaningful and purposeful life in 2025.
Valentine’s Day, also called Saint Valentine’s Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is celebrated annually on February 14. It originated as a Christian feast day honoring a martyr named, Valentine, and through later folk traditions it has also become a significant cultural, religious and commercial celebration of romance and love in many regions of the world.
Valentine’s Day customs – sending greeting cards (known as “valentines”), offering confectionery and presenting flowers – developed in early modern England and spread throughout the English-speaking world in the 19th century. In the later 20th and early 21st centuries, these customs spread to other countries, like those of Halloween, and aspects of Christmas.
The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately 190 million valentines are sent each year in the US. Half of those valentines are given to family members other than husbands, wives and partners, usually to children. When the valentine-exchange cards made in school activities are included the figure goes up to 1 billion, and teachers become the people receiving the most valentines.
The increase in use of the Internet around the turn of the millennium is creating new traditions. Every year, millions of people use digital means of creating and sending Valentine’s Day greeting messages such as e-cards, love coupons and printable greeting cards. Valentine’s Day is considered by some to be a Hallmark holiday due to its commercialization.
Valentine’s Day is a major source of economic activity, with total expenditures topping $18.2 billion in 2017, or over $136 per person. This is an increase from $108 per person in 2010. In 2019, a survey by the National Retail Foundation found that over the previous decade, the percentage of people who celebrate Valentine’s Day had declined steadily. From their survey results, they found three primary reasons: over-commercialization of the holiday, not having a significant other, and not being interested in celebrating it.
mental health in the news: black history month
Black History Month is an annually observed commemorative month originating in the United States, where it is also known as African-American History Month. It began as a way of remembering important people and events in the history of the African diaspora, originally lasting a week before becoming a month-long observation since 1970. It is celebrated in February in the United States and Canada where it received recognition from both governments.
Negro History Week (1926)
The precursor to Black History Month was created in 1926 in the United States, when historian, Carter G. Woodson and the Association for the Study of Negro Life and History, (ASNLH) announced the second week of February to be “Negro History Week.” This week was chosen because it coincided with the birthday of Abraham Lincoln on February 12 and that of Frederick Douglas on February 14, both of which Black communities had celebrated since the late 19th century. Examples of this include when in January, 1897, school teacher, Mary Church Terrell, persuaded the Washington, D. C. school board to set aside the afternoon of Douglas’s birthday as Douglas Day to teach about his life and work in the city’s segregated public schools. The thought process behind the week was never recorded, but scholars acknowledge two reasons for its birth: recognition and importance. In 1915, Woodson has participated in the Lincoln Jubilee, a celebration of the 50 years since emancipation from slavery heled in Bronzeville, Chicago. The summer-long Jubilee, which drew thousands of attendees from across the county to see exhibitions of heritage and culture, impressed Woodson with the need to draw organized focus to the history of black people. He let the founding of the ASNLH in Chicago that fall. Toward the end of the Jubilee.
Early in the event’s history, African-American newspapers lent crucial support. From the event’s initial phase, primary emphasis was placed on encouraging the coordinated teaching of the history of Black Americans in the nation’s public schools. The first Negro History Week was met with a lukewarm response, gaining the cooperation of the departments of education of the states of North Carolina, Delaware, and West Virginia, as well as the city school administrations of Baltimore, New York City, Philadelphia and Washington, D. C. Despite this limited observance, Woodson regarded the event as “one of the most fortunate steps ever taken by the Association,” and plans for an annual repeat of the event continued.
At the time of Negro History Week’s launch, Woodson contended that the teaching of Black History was essential to ensure the physical and intellectual survival of Blacks within broader society:
“If a race has no history, it has no worthwhile tradition, it becomes a negligible factor in the thought of the world, and it stands in danger of being exterminated. The American Indian left no continuous record. He did not appreciate the value of tradition; and where is he today? The Hebrew keenly appreciated the value of tradition, as is attested by the Bible itself. In spite of worldwide persecution, therefore, he is a great factor in our civilization.”
In 1929, The Journal of Negro History noted that, with only two exceptions, officials with the state departments of education of “every state with considerable Negro population” had made the event known to that state’s teachers and distributed official literature associated with the event. Churches also played a significant role in the distribution of literature in association with Negro History Week during this initial period, with the mainstream and Black press aiding in the publicity effort.
Throughout the 1930s, Negro History Week countered the growing myth of the South’s, ”lost cause,” which argued that enslaved people had been well-treated, that the Civil War was a war of “northern aggression,” and that Black people had been better off under slavery. Woodson wrote, “When you control a man’s thinking you do not have to worry about his actions, you do not have to tell him not to stand here or go yonder. He will find his ‘proper place’ and will stay in it.”
Negro History Week grew in popularity throughout the following decades, with mayors across the United States endorsing it as a holiday.
Black History Month (1970)
Black educators and Black United Students at Kent State University first proposed Black History Month in February 1969. The first celebration of Black History Month took place at Kent State a year later, from January 2 to February 28, 1970.
Six years later, Black History Month was being celebrated all across the country in educational institutions, centers of Black culture, and community centers, both great and small, when President Gerald Ford recognized Black History Month in 1976, during the celebration of the United States Bicentennial. He urged Americans to “seize the opportunity to honor the too-often neglected accomplishments of Black Americans in every area of endeavor throughout our history.”
National Freedom Day
National Freedom Day is an observance in the United States honoring the signing by President Abrahma Lincoln of a joint House and Senate resolution that later was ratified as the 13th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. President Lincoln signed the Amendment abolishing slavery on February 1, 1865, but it was not ratified by the states until later.
Try to attend one of the many alcohol-free celebrations sponsored by Alcoholics Anonymous or another organization near where you live. Consider helping others who are less fortunate by volunteering your time at an agency that offers services to people or animals. Call a friend or a family member, mend a broken relationship, donate to a charity that you feel does important work, and if the time is right for you, call to talk to one of our therapists at Inspire who will listen, understand and try to help you.
December is a time many people feel, “is the most wonderful time of the year,” and if that is true for you, then we urge you to celebrate safely with those you love with traditions, music, rituals, sending-out and receiving cards and gift-giving. Perhaps you will reconnect with your spiritual beliefs or deepen them. But, if it is not a happy time for you, then we ask you to seriously think about talking with someone at Inspire who can help.
This is a time of year when we celebrate light over darkness, which is true whether we are lighting a Menorah or decorating a Christmas tree and arranging a nativity scene; kissing under the Mistletoe or giving a gift from the heart. And, so it is with mental illness and substance use issues, if this is a really tough time for you, we hope you will reach out and let the light of mental health overtake the darkness of your struggles.
Many people acutely grieve lost loved ones at this time of year. The joy of the season can highlight the absence of those who have died and how much we love and miss them. Our grief can be overwhelming. These feelings are normal and predictable this time of year. Individual counseling and support groups can help enormously. If you are grieving, please call Inspire to make an appointment to talk with a psychotherapist. We can help you learn to grieve in healthy, effective ways as you learn to accommodate the loss of a loved one including a beloved pet. Please let us accompany you on your grief journey.
November makes many of us think of Thanksgiving and of gathering with those we love to celebrate. Thanksgiving is one of the most cherished holidays in the United States, celebrated annually on the fourth Thursday of November. It dates back to 1621 when the Pilgrims, who had arrived in Plymouth, Massachusetts, shared a harvest feast with the Wampanoag Native Americans.
This event is considered one of the first Thanksgiving celebrations in America, symbolizing cooperation and gratitude. Over time, Thanksgiving evolved into a national holiday focused on giving thanks for the year’s blessings. Families and friends gather to share a festive meal, typically with turkey as the centerpiece, along with traditional dishes like stuffing, cranberry sauce and a pumpkin pie. The day is often marked with parades such as the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City and watching football games. Thanksgiving holds deep cultural significance as it highlights the themes of gratitude, community and reflection. It also marks the beginning of the holiday season leading into Christmas, Hanukah and New Year Celebrations. We at Inspire hope that however you mark this day, you will enjoy it.
Many people remember their deceased loved ones in a special way during the month of November or on specific days in the month. If this is true for you and feelings of acute grief or chronic bereavement become overwhelming, especially at this time of year, please call Inspire to schedule an appointment with one of our grief counselors. We can help you learn to grieve in healthy, effective ways as you accommodate the loss of a loved one. Please let us accompany you on your grief journey.
Mental Health in February
Perhaps for you, February is marked by celebrating the events mentioned above, but for some oppression and hatred are real and may feel worse than ever before. You may find that as an American you do not feel equal, counted, respected, protected and safe these days. Instead, your anxiety, depression and anger feel more severe. If this is you, we urge you to build a stronger support network of like-minded people. We also urge you to contact Inspire Behavioral Health to schedule an appointment to see one of our providers to talk about your thoughts and feelings in a safe and non-judgmental place. We encourage you to take concrete actions for self-care which may include limiting how much news you watch, listen to or read each day. You may try to take more breaks or place a higher emphasis on improving your sleep, and feeling rested. You might want to limit your intake of caffeine and alcohol. You might consider joining a group of some kind, or a volunteer or advocacy effort. And, remember that while reflecting and journaling alone can be helpful and therapeutic, isolating is harmful and almost always exacerbates most of our anxieties, worries and concerns. Keep in mind that any physical exercise including walking will be more helpful than staying at home worrying. You may want to give some thought to joining a gym, enrolling in a Yoga class, working with a trainer or a nutritionist, commit to reading more or register to take a course. It may be the time, even when you are in the midst of your pain, to take steps to develop your spiritual life. And at Inspire, we hope it is the year you invest in your mental health and emotional well-being. Our staff of dedicated professionals is here to help you to work on what is most important in life, you! Please take time to read about our many services and providers on our website: Inspirebehavioralhealth.com and then call us to schedule an appointment.
We offer high quality and compassionate mental health care and treatment to people living in Virginia, Maryland and the District of Columbia, both virtually and in-person with offices in Vienna, Fairfax, Sterling and Bethesda.
You may find yourself alone and lonely, two very different things, this Valentine’s Day or realize once again that you are in a toxic relationship and need to end it. We know that we are in the midst of a loneliness pandemic despite being more connected to one another (electronically) than we ever have before. A 2024 American Psychiatric survey found that one in three Americans says they feel lonely at least once every week. And, in the most recent World Happiness Report international happiness rankings, the United States fell from 15th to 23rdplace. You may be experiencing this pandemic in an acute, real and personal way. You may be grieving the loss of a love on what may feel like the national day of romance. If so, please call us because help is available.
You may be coping with all of this and more. You may be barely coping with the loss of a loved one, a person or pet, or because of the ending of a relationship, the worsening of an illness or another one of the many struggles of life we face. Please know you have our support and that we are ready to help and only a phone call away.
Perhaps you will begin writing in a journal this month, or begin living your life with “an attitude of gratitude.” Our hope is we all may feel loved and appreciated, valued and worthwhile. We hope that we all may try to be a little kinder to each other and especially to ourselves, and may begin to take better care of our body, brain and spirit. It may be time to make an investment in your mental health and emotional well-being. If it is time, and we hope it is, for you to begin living your best life and learn how to free yourself from the worries and problems that burden you, then please call us at Inspire to schedule an appointment to see one of our mental health providers.
There are many reasons to focus on mental health this month, not only because of what has been motioned but also because you may have lost your job or been told to work in-person even though you were hired for remote work. Many people are experiencing a range of feelings and emotions with regard to the new administration, the unbelievable number of executive orders which have been issued, the real-life implications and consequences of those orders, and the seemingly urgent, mean-spirited and vengeful implementation of those orders, the likes of which, most of us have never seen before.
If you are in recovery, we urge you to remind yourself that this is not the time to give-up by relapsing to unhealthy and self-destructive behaviors. Instead, reconnect with your recovery support network or join a new one.
When it comes to mental illness and substance use issues, if this month is a really tough time for you, we hope you will reach out and let the light of mental health overtake the darkness of your struggles.
your mental health matters
Remember, taking care of your mental health isn’t a luxury – it is a necessity. Inspire Behavioral Health is here to help you improve your mental health, maintain your emotional wellbeing, manage stress and address any concerns you may have.
Keep in mind that help is available if you or someone you know is struggling with a mental health or substance use issue, and now is the time to get the help you or they need. Please call us at Inspire Behavioral Health to schedule an appointment to talk with one of our clinicians.
What Is Your Story? How can we help you build a life worth Living?
Remember, taking care of your mental health isn’t a luxury – it is a necessity. Inspire Behavioral Health is here to help you improve your mental health, maintain your emotional wellbeing, manage stress and address any concerns you may have.
Keep in mind that help is available if you or someone you know is struggling with a mental health or substance use issue, and now is the time to get the help you or they need. Please call us at Inspire Behavioral Health to schedule an appointment to talk with one of our clinicians.
Let Us Help
Clinicians at Inspire Behavioral Health are here to help by joining you on the journey toward mental health and recovery from addictions. May of our providers are trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy or DBT, and others are trained and credentialed in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or CBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or ACT, Rational Emotive Therapy or RET, and many others, all with one goal in mind, to help you.
Our licensed professionals can help you to identify what seem like the dialectical or opposite sides of our thinking and feeling so that you can emerge more integrated and whole. You can come to understand how feelings can inform thoughts and vice versa rather than being controlled by intense emotions, irrational feelings, intrusive thoughts, cravings or triggers. We can help you with talk therapy, testing and medication (if clinically indicated) to live a life worth living and learn to thrive in your day-to-day life. Imagine living a more meaningful and rewarding life, communicating more effectively with others and enhancing your interpersonal relationships. Let us help you build that life, become more compassionate and strengthen your empathy by calling Inspire Behavioral Health for an appointment today. You can help yourself and when you are ready, begin to support the longevity, health, and well-being of all members of our society.
How to Find a Counselor
Once you decide to get professional health for a personal struggle, whether it is about anxiety, depression, grief, a mood disorder, an addiction to a substance or a behavior that has become out of control, a relationship issue, your sexual identity or a behavioral issue, or something else, finding the right type of provider and service can be daunting. Where do you start? Inspire Behavioral Health can help because we are home to many caring professionals with a variety of specialties. We are confident you will find the provider who has the experience to addressing your particular issues and unique circumstances. Please visit our website to read our providers’ biographies, areas of expertise and their perspectives on how to help you. If you are in a rural area, you may have difficulty finding a mental health professional nearby, so remember that all of our clinicians are available to you virtually.
Substance Use and Addiction
Do you wonder whether your use of alcohol is excessive? Do you worry that that you may be heading toward problematic drinking, or has your drinking begun to cause issues or concerns for your health, in your relationships, at work or with the law? If this sounds like you, then take the CAGE (free on-line).
Call us at IBH to talk with one of our providers who can offer you an evaluation by an addiction psychiatrist or a certified substance use therapist. They will then work with you on an effective treatment plan that may include talk therapy, anti-craving medication, or Medication Assisted Therapy, (MAT), such as Suboxone. We also strongly encourage attending community-based recovery groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, Sex Anonymous and other Twelve Step Programs.
Inspire Behavioral Health offers a full range of mental health services as well as treatment options for people struggling with substance use (alcohol and other drugs), and process addictions (food, sex, gambling, spending, Internet, video game, or social media addiction, shopping and other behaviors that are marked by poor impulse control), with medications as well as individual, couple, family and group therapy. Nearly eight million adults in the United States experience co-occurring mental health and substance use disorders.
Men’s Group
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is a compassionate type of therapy behavioral therapy that is intended to help people move toward a more mindful, aware and purposeful life. The key skills addressed in DBT include Core Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance, Emotional Regulation and Interpersonal Effectiveness. Members of this group offered at Inspire Behavioral Health by Psychotherapist, Ed Andrews, are taught the skills necessary to help deal with life stressors. This is done in a framework that helps people understand that they are doing the best they can while recognizing that there are newer strategies that may be more effective. This group is a safe, confidential place for men who are sustaining their recovery from chemical or process addictions, coping with chronic illness, managing stress, anxiety and/or depression, accommodating change in their lives, coping with loss and transition, and seeking support and growth. Please call us for more information about this important group.
Thank you for being part of Inspire Behavioral Health, we appreciate you and wish you a happy February!
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Vienna: 2110 Gallows Road Suite D, Vienna, VA 22182
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Ed Andrews, LPC, LMFT, Newsletter Editor
703-592-4600
info@inspirebehavioralhealth.com